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Starting a Game

Each time you sit down to play, you’ll set up the game for that round — your starting clothing, how intense the game can get, where you’ll play, and which toys you have on hand. (This is separate from your player profiles, which you only set up once.)

Set this up together. Talk through each choice and agree on it before you start — especially the game stage and the orgasm indicator.

Step 1 — Start a new game

From the home screen, tap New Game.

Home screen with Load Game, New Game, and Exit Game buttons

Step 2 — Set the starting dress levels

Love Setup screen with dress level, level, location, and climax options

Choose how much clothing each of you starts in. There are five dress levels per player:

  • Husband: Fully Clothed · Shirt, Pants & Underwear · Pants & Underwear · Underwear · Fully Naked
  • Wife: Fully Clothed · Shirt/Bra, Pants & Panties · Shirt/Bra & Panties · Panties · Fully Naked

Tip: Start Fully Clothed for a fun “strip-poker” style build-up, or Fully Naked if you’d rather get right to it.

Step 3 — Choose the game stage

Level selection dropdown showing the game stages

The game stage sets how far the activities can go. Each stage builds on the ones before it:

  • Stage 1 — Non-sexual play, lite pain: kissing, foreplay, petting, and light spanking through clothes.
  • Stage 2 — adds intercourse: sexual activities, excluding oral and anal.
  • Stage 3 — adds oral & light bondage: oral play plus light bondage (blindfolds, cuffs, spreader bar).
  • Stage 4 — adds anal play.
  • Stage 5 — adds full bondage & impact play: heavier restraint and impact play (whip, paddle, crop, clamps, etc.).

Your plan sets the ceiling: Basic unlocks Stages 1–2, Advanced unlocks 1–4, and Premium unlocks all 5. (Compare plans.)

Step 4 — Choose your locations

Location selection with options like Can Be Performed Anywhere, Shower, Garage

Pick the places you’re able and willing to play this round — for example, you might choose differently at home than in a hotel. Options include Can Be Played Anywhere, Laundry Room, Pool/Hot Tub/Sauna, Shower/Bath, Car/Vehicle, Garage, and Outside/Yard.

Must select: at least “Can Be Played Anywhere” — otherwise the game may have no cards to play.

Step 5 — Set the orgasm indicator

Set how many activities must be completed before a card that allows an orgasm can appear. Both spouses should discuss and agree on this number.

Tip: A lower number makes for a shorter, quicker game; a higher number makes for a longer one.

Step 6 — Choose available toys

Select only the toys you actually have on hand for this game. (Need something? The cart icon links to our sister store, Romantic Blessings.)

Must select: at least “No Toys Needed” — otherwise the game may have no cards to play.

Step 7 — Start playing

Completed Love Setup screen with the Continue button

Tap Continue to save your settings and begin. (Changed your mind? The back arrow discards your choices so you can start over.) You can reset and adjust any of these settings the next time you play.

Ready for the rules of play? Head to Playing the Game.

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