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His & Her Profile Setup
Before your first game, each of you creates a player profile — one for the husband and one for the wife. Your profile tells the game exactly which toys, locations, and activities you’re comfortable with, so every card you draw stays inside the boundaries you choose. Both profiles are set up the same way, so just follow these steps once for each spouse.
Only choose what you’re comfortable with. Every activity, toy, and option is yours to include or leave out — and you can change your selections anytime. No one should ever feel pressured to take part in anything.
⚠️ Don’t skip these three — or the game may have no cards to play
The game builds every card from the choices in your profile. If you select too little, you can end up with no playable cards. At a minimum, make sure each profile includes:
- Toys → “No Toys Needed”
- Locations → “Can Be Played Anywhere”
- Activities → “Kissing”
Selecting more unlocks more cards — these three are simply your safety net.
Step 1 — Enter names and dates
- Enter the player’s first and last name.
- Tap the calendar icon to set the birthdate, then scroll to choose the year, month, and day and tap Save.
- Tap the calendar icon in the anniversary field and set your anniversary date the same way. (Required.)
Step 2 — Open your preferences
Using the scroll bar on the right, scroll down to reach your Toys, Locations, and Activities fields, plus your Safe Word.
Step 3 — Choose your toys
Open the Toys dropdown and check every toy you’re comfortable having used — or tap Select All and uncheck the few you’d rather skip. Then tap Save.
Must select: at least “No Toys Needed” — otherwise you may have no cards to play.
- 🛒 Cart icon — shop that toy at our sister store, Romantic Blessings, if you don’t already own it.
- ℹ️ Info icon — open tips, guides, and videos on how to use that toy safely.
More choices = more cards. The more toys, locations, and activities you select, the more game cards become available to you. Selecting very few can leave you with few — or no — cards to play.
Step 4 — Choose your locations
Open the Locations dropdown and check the places you’re comfortable playing (or Select All, then uncheck as needed). Tap Save.
Must select: at least “Can Be Played Anywhere” — otherwise you may have no cards to play.
Step 5 — Choose your activities
For each activity, you choose two things separately:
- Giving — check this if you’re comfortable performing the activity on your spouse.
- Receiving — check this if you’re comfortable having your spouse perform it on you.
Tap the ℹ️ info icon on any activity for educational tips, guides, and videos, then tap Save.
Must select: at least “Kissing” — otherwise you may have no cards to play.
Step 6 — Set your safe word
Enter a safe word and share it with your spouse. The moment either of you says your safe word, all play stops immediately — no questions, no hesitation. Make sure you both know each other’s word and agree on what it means before you begin.
Step 7 — Add a photo and finish
- (Optional) Tap Upload Profile Pic to add a photo (.png or .jpg).
- Tap Update Profile to save everything.
Your profile is saved for next time — you only set it up once, and you can update it whenever your comfort levels change.
Now do the same for your spouse
Repeat Steps 1–7 for the other player so both profiles are ready.
Talk first. Before you set up your profiles, take a few minutes together to talk openly and honestly about what you’re each comfortable with and curious to explore. These settings aren’t set in stone — revisit them anytime as you grow together.
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