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[DEV PREVIEW] Bondage Furniture & Positioning Aids
Positioning aids and bondage furniture are all about comfort and support — props that hold a position for you so you can both relax into the moment instead of straining to hold it. Some are simply supportive (a wedge or cushion that takes the work out of an angle); others gently hold a wrist or ankle in place for playful, trusting restraint. Used lovingly, they make intimacy more comfortable, more varied, and a lot of fun.
Positioning aids — comfort first
Firm foam wedges, ramps, and cushions do something wonderfully practical: they support the body at just the right angle so a position feels effortless instead of tiring. They’re a gift for comfort, for reaching angles that are otherwise hard to hold, and for anyone with a bad back or achy knees. There’s nothing intense about them — they simply help you both stay relaxed and present.
Spreader bars & restraint furniture
Other aids gently hold a position for playful restraint — a padded spreader bar that keeps the ankles apart, or straps and supports that hold the wrists comfortably. The appeal is the same as any restraint play: one spouse gets to relax and receive while the other lovingly takes the lead. Look for padded, adjustable, quick-release designs, and always keep a way to free your spouse instantly.
Getting started gently
- Begin with a simple positioning cushion — it’s pure comfort and an easy first step.
- For any restraint aid, agree on a safe word first and keep quick-release within reach.
- Never leave a restrained spouse alone, and check in often on comfort, circulation, and arms falling asleep.
- Go slowly with new angles — ease in and stop if anything pulls or strains.
Always about intimacy — never about control
Everything here is meant for a husband and wife to build trust and draw closer together, in a loving, mutual, and fully agreed-upon way — never a way to control, punish, demean, or dominate your spouse. Praying together before you begin keeps God at the center and your hearts tender toward one another. And if you have ever experienced abuse, or are experiencing it now, please stop this kind of play and seek professional help right away. Your safety and well-being come first, always.
What it does for your marriage
Comfort and trust are the quiet foundations of good intimacy, and these aids serve both. A wedge that makes closeness effortless, or a gentle restraint that lets one spouse fully relax and receive, is really just a tool for being more present with each other — less straining, more connecting.
Positioning cushions, wedges, and padded restraint aids are available at our sister store, Romantic Blessings.
A quick note: Married Love Games isn’t a medical provider, therapist, or licensed health professional, and these guides are shared for general education and encouragement only — not as medical, psychological, or therapeutic advice. Every couple is different, so use your own judgment, go at a pace you’re both comfortable with, and stop if anything hurts. If you have any health concerns, pain, or ongoing difficulty with intimacy, please speak with a qualified doctor or licensed professional.
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